“I’m My Mother’s Daughter”
- Bhavya Dakavaram

- Aug 16
- 2 min read
(and the stories she knew before I did)

I used to believe
I was born from my own fire—
a spark flung from some lonely star,
untouched, unshaped,
my voice my own making.
But the more I wandered through stories,
the more I found her
waiting in their folds.
A mother who tore the earth apart
searching for her child—
not with rage, but with bloom,
with wheat curling around her fingertips.
She didn’t shout,
she starved the world into remembering.
And I saw it—
the way mine loved in silence,
how she waited for me
without ever asking
why I left.
There was another,
a goddess in soft silks and quiet prayers,
who shaped a daughter from clay,
breathed life into her,
and let her dance.
Not once did she ask for thanks.
And suddenly I remembered
the hands that stitched my dreams together
while I was too busy chasing them.
There were stories too,
of a girl born to a woman
chosen by heaven but broken by men.
And how that daughter,
though left unnamed in many pages,
must have watched her mother
stand beneath a cross,
and learned that love
sometimes means
watching pain you cannot stop.
I think that’s when I understood
why my mother always turned her face away
when I was hurting—
not from weakness,
but from too much knowing.
In the west,
they whispered of a woman
whose golden hair kissed the dawn,
whose daughter became the morning.
Not in thunder,
but in soft return.
And I knew—
my mother never asked me
to be like her.
She just became the sky
so I could rise.
And far away,
in a garden held between mountain winds,
a daughter watched her mother vanish
into moonlight.
She looked up for years.
They say the moon is still her mother’s face.
And I—
I’ve spent nights
searching the sky for someone
who never really left.
All these stories,
I thought were myths.
But they were memories.
Not mine—
hers.
Each mother,
not a goddess,
but a woman
who made space
for a daughter to become.
And each daughter,
not a saviour,
but a mirror
realizing her reflection
was never just her own.
I used to think
my strength was new,
my softness invented.
But now I see—
it is ancient.
It is hers.
She fought with gentleness
so my fury could win.
She held back tears
so I could cry.
She stayed
so I could leave.
And when I speak,
my voice carries
a thousand women
whose stories I never asked for
but carry anyway.
I am my mother’s daughter.
And the more I learn,
the more I remember
what I never knew I knew.
And all of it came to me
not with thunder,
but on a Tuesday,
as we sat curled on the couch,
TV humming between us,
light flickering on her cheek.
She laughed at something on screen—
that laugh,
unmistakable and mine.
And in that moment,
without myth,
without gods,
I looked at her profile
and knew.
I am my mother’s daughter.
And I am in love
with that truth.
That I am the flowering myth
she always hoped would bloom.
-Bhavya Dakavaram






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